This is especially so in the early days of a relationship, because when a guy is excited and attracted to a woman, he can’t keep his hands off of her.
When a guy is into a girl, he wants to share experiences with her.
Chances are if he’s active on dating apps like Tinder, he’s probably talking to some of those prospects.
Busy or not, if his emotional energy isn’t fully dedicated to you and the relationship, then he isn’t serious.
It is important in the beginning of a relationship that you two have alone time to learn about each other.
However, if he isn’t asking questions about your family and friends, then this isn’t a good sign – he’s not looking for something long-term.
If your guy isn’t making a point to call enough, then perhaps he’s not very interested and with this point, you may have figured out the answer to “Why he’s too busy for me”.
Don’t start with the excuses now, like “Well that’s just the way he is,” or “He’s just a flaky guy.” If he continues to be late or ditch plans that you made because something comes up all of sudden, then he’s showing you he doesn’t care as much as you deserve.
In addition, if he’s not introducing you to his friends, then you may have to take a serious look at where this is going.
A lot of people aren’t comfortable with full on intimacy in public.