published several "rants" on the concept of the Nice Guy.
The central theme was that a genuinely nice male is desirable, but that many Nice Guys are insecure men unwilling to articulate their romantic or sexual feelings directly.
The "nice guys finish last" view is that there is a discrepancy between women's stated preferences and their actual choices in men.
In other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad boys" in the end.
According to this interpretation people who display wealth, good looks, dominance and confidence tend to succeed more in romance than do 'nice guys'.
Nice guys are therefore resentful at the inconsistency between what people claim to be attracted to and by how they act in reality.I like keeping fit and have a load of interests including watching Golf,outdoors, cooking, tennis, fishing,...I am a serious, quiet, well-balanced, humorous, cheerful, kind, responsible, hardworking and tender-hearted lady. Am pursuing a career in the legal field And l must confess am... Loves sports,food, music,beach, and Oh yea...I mention golf.Desrochers (1995) suggests that "it still seems popular to believe that women in contemporary America prefer men who are 'sensitive,' or have feminine personality traits." Women have differing opinions about whether "nice guys finish last" sexually or not.found that 56% of 165 university women claimed to agree with the statement: "You may have heard the expression, 'Nice guys finish last.' In terms of dating, and sex, do you think women are less likely to have sex with men who are 'nice' than men who are 'not nice'?When used negatively, a nice guy implies a male who is unassertive, does not express his true feelings and, in the context of dating (in which the term is often used The results of the research on romantic perception of "nice guys" are mixed and often inconsistent.Herold & Milhausen conclude: "The answer to the question 'Do nice guys finish last?' is complicated in that it is influenced both by the measurement instruments used and by subject characteristics." found that women associate different qualities with the "nice guy" label: "Some women offered flattering interpretations of the 'nice guy', characterizing him as committed, caring, and respectful of women.Some women, however, emphasized more negative aspects, considering the 'nice guy' to be boring, lacking confidence, and unattractive." These studies also cite other research on heterosexual attraction that does not mention the "nice guy" term.The results of failure are often resentment toward women and/or society.The 'nice guy' is commonly said to be put by women "into the friend zone" who do not reciprocate his romantic or sexual interest.