Make a t-girl feel like a lady and you're well on your way to success! No flaming, personal attacks or abuse against others. Notice the word "gentleman." When a t-girl feels that she is being treated with the dignity and respect befitting a lady she is in heaven.
This is risky business and your misunderstanding could cause you to miss out on an opportunity to meet the lover of your dreams. They simply aren't interested in men, so perhaps you shouldn't waste your time. Read or listen as t-girls describe themselves and you will gain insight into exactly where they are in their life and where they intend to go.
Others are bisexual (your chances are improving here). A dialog should be able to resolve any remaining questions you might have.
Most t-girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided. - You must screen your t-girl friends just as you would screen any other potential friends or lovers.
Do they possess undesirable traits such as drug addiction, alcohol abuse, criminal intent, HIV , etc? afety is a very important consideration that cannot be overlooked just because you have a raging hardon!
Steer clear of the bad apples - Just like other people in the real world, some t-girls have drug or alcohol problems, nasty dispositions, etc..
A few simple questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits.
Some t-girls are looking for men, others are looking for women. Some live full-time as females, others live part-time as females. Remember that you're looking for someone who will compliment what you're looking for and your job is to narrow the field to those who are looking for someone just like you!
Use proper terminology - You will quickly learn that not all t-girls like being called shemales.
This is a generic term that fits most t-girls and is rarely offensive.
Whether in person or in writing, making a good first impression is critical for success.