Dating in Secret is an online dating and friend finder service for single or attached people looking for discreet adult fun.
With Dating in Secret you can meet new friends, find romance or simply meet up online with people sharing similar interests and hobbies.
There’s no profit in expending valuable time and brain-cycles on the people who aren’t responding to you. Treating online dating like an exercise in commerce and marketing can seem antithetical to the process of trying to find a date, a sex partner, or a long-term relationship.
You need to direct your attention to where it does the most good: the people who are already checking you out. After all, dating is all about putting your best, most authentic self forward and we associate marketing with an attractive line of bullshit that’s intended to lure in a bunch of suckers eager to be separated from their hard-earned money.
The idea applies to online dating as much as it does trying to get your blog to the first page of Google search results.
Most dating sites allow you to narrow your search to specific parameters.
OKCupid highlights new uploaded profile photos and gives a noted preference to people who answer more of their questions and quizzes.
Regularly adding new photos to your profile – and rotating out older ones – will help keep your dating profile fresh and attract more attention; in fact, a new primary profile photo can bring back people who’ve skimmed over you before.
OKCupid and Match, for example, will cheerfully help you find the 6-foot tall, blonde Estonian Ph D candidate of your dreams.
OKCupid takes it a step farther with their match percentage heuristics; you can search by compatibility, personality traits, questions answered and most importantly: keywords.